Table of Contents


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PREFACE:
Laura Davis: The Parent I Wanted to Be
Janis Keyser: The Teacher I Wanted to Be
INTRODUCTION:
The Parenting Journey

Part One: A Framework for the Parenting Journey: Nine Principles
Chapter 1: Arrow DEVELOPING A VISION FOR YOUR FAMILY

Chapter 2: Arrow LEARNING ABOUT CHILDREN

Chapter 3: Arrow CULTIVATING A SPIRIT OF OPTIMISM ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN

Chapter 4: Arrow UNDERSTANDING THAT PARENTS ARE ALWAYS GROWING

Chapter 5: Arrow LEARNING TO VALUE STRUGGLE AND DISEQUILIBRIUM

Chapter 6: Arrow WORKING TOWARD A BALANCE OF NEEDS

Chapter 7: Arrow TEACHING CHILDREN TO FEEL SAFE, STRONG, AND GOOD ABOUT THEIR WORLD

Chapter 8: Arrow BEING HUMAN: WHEN YOU'RE NOT YET THE PARENT YOU WANT TO BE

Chapter 9: Arrow BUILDING A SUPPORTIVE COMMUNITY


Part Two: Children's Feelings
Chapter 10: Arrow LEARNING ABOUT FEELINGS

Chapter 11: Arrow RESPONDING TO CRYING AND TANTRUMS

Chapter 12: Arrow HELPING YOUR CHILDREN DEAL WITH FEAR

Chapter 13: Arrow THE DANCE OF SEPARATION


Part Three: Children's Bodies
Chapter 14: Arrow HELPING CHILDREN SLEEP

Chapter 15: Arrow CHILDREN AND EATING: BUILDING A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP TO FOOD

Chapter 16: Arrow FROM TOILET TRAINING TO TOILET LEARNING

Chapter 17: Arrow LEARNING ABOUT BODIES


Part Four: Dealing with Difficult Behavior
Chapter 18: Arrow UNDERSTANDING DIFFICULT BEHAVIOR

Chapter 19: Arrow MOVING BEYOND PUNISHMENT

Chapter 20: Arrow PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER: WHEN CHILDREN TEST LIMITS

Chapter 21: Arrow NEGOTIATING CONFLICTS BETWEEN PARENT AND CHILD


Part Five: Social Learning and Play
Chapter 22: Arrow SUPPORTING CHILDREN'S PLAY AND LEARNING

Chapter 23: Arrow CHILDREN'S FRIENDSHIPS: COOPERATION AND CONFLICT

Chapter 24: Arrow WHAT ENABLES CHILDREN TO SHARE

Chapter 25: Arrow "BUT GIRLS CAN'T DO THAT": HELPING CHILDREN MOVE BEYOND LIMITING GENDER ROLES

Chapter 26: Arrow PREPARING CHILDREN TO LIVE IN A RICHLY DIVERSE WORLD


Part Six: Family Relationships
Chapter 27: Arrow PARENTING WITH A PARTNER

Chapter 28: Arrow BUILDING STRONG SIBLING RELATIONSHIPS

AFTERWORD: GROWING UP, GROWING TOGETHER

Excerpted from Becoming the Parent You Want to Be: A Sourcebook of Strategies for the First Five Years by Laura Davis and Janis Keyser.
Copyright © 1997 by Laura Davis and Janis Keyser. Excerpted by permission of Broadway Books, a division of the Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this excerpt may be reproduced or reprinted without permission in writing from the publisher.